The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk it all
You can be the smartest person in the world, the most talented, the most persistent, but you will never win in the world or with women unless you embrace the glory of RISK. But Pook, I am scared of risk. What if I lose Pook slapped the youth. You cannot lose Everyone wants to define your life, to shape it to their ends. From politicians to your friends. Everything is all right as long as you stay you. But if you break out of the mold, everyone, and I do mean everyone, will try to stop you. Just...
barrier hand gestures
Hands are all too easily accessible when it comes to creating body barriers . You can use them to cover any part of your face or to clutch a wine glass or bag to your chest when you feel under attack at social events If you're a man, you might even use your hands to perform the classic crotch-cover or fig-leaf pose when you feel under physical or emotional attack Even a small amount of facial touch will imply either anxiety or lying, so make strenuous efforts to keep your hands off your face,...
Get Rid Of The Infatuation Up Front
Infatuation. Foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration One of the symptoms of dating and seduction of attractive women that afflicts men is what I call the Babe-shock factor. When you first approach a woman you find attractive, what's going through your head most of the time Oh, wow I can't believe I'm talking to this hot babe This is great I wonder if she likes me And you proceed to act like a goober, fawning all over her and complimenting her. Smiling all the time. Leaning...
Cocky Funny
You've probably heard about this a million times and even tried to imply it on your behavior. C amp F is a style of personality or mindset you project to gain attraction of women. It is a copyrighted phrase for a seduction method invented by David DeAngelo. This kind of behavior says all the right things about you How do you enter this mindset What I do I think of myself as a brand name product. Think of yourself as the Rolex of men. the Lamborghini of men. the goddamn Cognac of men Now you add...
Pacing the ongoing reality
A good tool to use for instant rapport, especially when approaching as you need to overcome her possible cautiousness about you and do it fast is pacing the ongoing reality. What this means, is describing both the very recent for example her having been idle and you having approached her , ongoing you talking to her and her being pleasantly surprised and near future events her feeling good about getting to know a handsome stranger like you in a pleasant, humorous and believeable manner. Here's...
Always End the Date First
If you have not been living by The Rules, then you probably didn't know that the first date or two should last no more than five hours. A good way to end the date is to nonchalantly glance at your watch and say something like Gosh, I really must be going now. I have such a busy day tomorrow. As we said before don't say what you're doing. It doesn't matter and it's none of his business. Ending the date first is not so easy when you really like him and want to marry him, and you're both having a...
PRINCIPLE Line Them Up and Knock Them Down
The best seducer knows that going after one-night stands is exhausting and frustrating. You'll probably burn yourself out faster than a NASCAR racing engine at redline if you keep that up for long. The best strategy is the waterfall technique. To explain this, here is a graph of your seduction work during a twelve day period Pre-work using The Seduction Method Seduction Success Seduction Ended Pre-work using The Seduction Method Seduction Success Seduction Ended If you let each column of the...
Tip Dont ever be predictable
If you go out with a woman you have just met, and you have been going out every Friday, change the date, and don't be available every weekend. The more a woman has to figure you out, the more you will be on her mind. The second she feels TOO comfortable, she will take you for granted since she can't help it, for most guys are just too easy. When a woman asks you a predictable question, DON'T give a predictable answer. If she asks you what you do for a living, tell her you're a porn star. If you...
Setting yourself flirting challenges
Getting results requires challenges. To get results in a diet, for example, you have to set targets most diets initially aim for a 10 per cent loss in your body weight. Why not use that figure as a target to improve your flirting For great flirting results, look to hit 10 per cent of your flirting opportunities with an eyebrow flash, smile, and greeting in your first few days. If you have ten opportunities a day, a 10 per cent improvement means you have to connect with just one person. Eyebrow...
Leech off someone elses crash and burn
This one is simple. You see a guy hitting an a girl and stalling, doing a crash and burn, getting shot down - in other words failing miserably. The guy leaves with his tail between his legs mumbling Bitches to himself. You move in. If you overheard them talk, you can say That must have been the worst pick-up line I've ever heard . Or if you didn't That must have been one of the most pathetic approaches I've ever seen. BOOM She cracks up laughing - she has found a soul-mate, someone who feels...
Dancers
Bar none, the best method I've found to pick up Strippers has to be either working at a strip club, or being close friends with someone who works at a strip club. Remember how I've spent most of this book telling you that if you want to date a Stripper, you don't want to be seen as a customer Well, when you work a strip club or you're friends with someone who works there, that INSTANTLY separates you from the customers. You have a reason to be there other than being a lonely, horny loser who...
Chapter Initiate Educate Perservere
Let's cut to the chase. For a man to succeed with women, he must be able to initiate communication with a woman. The secret behind success in meeting, approaching, talking to, and seducing women in the twenty-first century is the ability to INITIATE Get out there and make the effort. This may sound easy enough, but it isn't. Many of you already know how hard it can be to approach a woman. This chapter explains why it is so important to take the initiative and learn from your mistakes. With this...
Wide Rapport
Topics you can cover to make sure you are going wide are human nature, relationships, music, hobbies, travel, childhood, pets, nightlife, and anything else you might have in common. Avoid boring and logical topics like work, school, politics, etc I hate to talk about her job because what she does may not perfectly fit her as a person. Sometimes there is no connection at all and just talking about it will turn her off. To make this easy, go through the following structure Open a Topic - Ask a...
Becoming A Modernday Seductress Or Seducer
Seduction what a titillating topic. The very word holds a promise of tantalizing pleasures, sensual indulgence, or, perhaps, forbidden delights. If you're like most of today's women and men, however, you're not hungering for forbidden fruit you simply want a pragmatic, honest, and mutually pleasurable path to enticing a lover. Over the years, I've worked with thousands of couples and individuals first through owning the video dating service Friend Connection, and now through my relationship...
Pressure Or Persistence
Directing and controlling her desire to be persuaded by you is an ever-present fear of the consequences. At the same time, she loves the excitement of the moment. If you don't offend her or scare her away, she wants more. But, it must be at the pace If she feels pressure to move faster, she will dig in her heels, figuratively, and resist. Once this happens, you will get nowhere by trying to persuade her. Back off Be patient not persistent. Wait until you accidentally cross her path again. Make...
Sexual Kino
Even after you have moved your seduction into the bedroom, you must realize that a good understanding of sexual kino will help you immensely. There are a few simple rules that can keep you from burning out and being a one-hit-wonder with your seduction target. - Wait as long as you can before directly stimulating her Use your fingers to tease, as well as please. Remember the definition of foreplay is not touching what she knows you want to touch. Foreplay is just one big tease, and the longer,...
More Props for Your Passion Play
You're already familiar with the notion of using props to communicate seductively. And you know that clothing can be a prop to aid in the actual seduction. Here are some more ideas to add delight to your lovemaking. Consider A silk scarf. Use it to stroke your lover on his or her most tender places, or employ it for gentle bondage. Mirrors. A mirror allows both of you to be both voyeur and exhibitionist at the same time. You may also enjoy the sensation of pressing your bare skin against the...
The Charmer Method
This last technique, unlike the previous methods, does not rely on sleight of tongue or verbal acrobatics. It works because you openly offer concessions, manifest a willingness to listen, and validate your prospect's beliefs. Your prospect has a free choice to decide. You do not cloud his mind with verbal mists. Of all the techniques discussed, it is the most ethical. Additionally, it takes the longest to carry out, but it can produce lasting relationships. Like the previous systems, this...
Understanding Flakes
Flakes are a very interesting thing to analyze. Understanding what happened and where you went wrong will help your game tremendously in the future. DON'T take flakes personally. Usually it just means you made a mistake somewhere. Mistakes are fixable. Flakes happen to everyone at some time or another. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you personally. For those who don't know, a flake is a girl who avoids your phone calls, your messages, won't set up a date, doesn't show up, etc. I...
The Ring or OK Gesture
This gesture was popularised in the USA during the early nineteenth century, apparently by the newspapers that, at the time, were starting a craze of using initials to shorten common phrases. There' are many different views about what the initials 'OK' stand for, some believing it stood for 'all correct' which may have been misspelled as 'oll korrect', while others say that it means the opposite of 'knock-out' that is, K.O. Another popular theory is that it is an abbreviation of 'Old...
Dont show too much interest
If you found something you liked at a booth, you had to be careful not to show them how much you liked it. If you picked it up and showed a lot of interest, they knew you were hooked before you even started haggling over the price. I watched one guy who had made this mistake. He picked up a couple books he wanted and proceeded to try and work the price down. You could see by how he held the books that he had already decided to buy them, which meant that the vendor could be a lot more difficult...
What Is Body Language
For those who have difficulty believing in body language, here's one way to look at it. You are on vacation in Moscow. Upon returning to your room, a wild-eyed, pistol wielding man confronts you. He slams the door and snarls something in Russian. As he cocks the gun and points it at your head, would you reach for your English-Russian dictionary To a gun toting mugger who speaks English, most of us would use body language and words to neutralize the threat. Body language Yes Raise your hands....
If she disrespects you
The Returning Fox theory, originated by Ray Parker, explained by NYC, ASF At the first sign of disrespect to you OR passing up an opportunity to spend time with you, you dump her. When she calls you wanting to go out or something, you tell her that her behaviour was unacceptable and that the only way you are going to let her hang out with you again is if she make up whatever shit you want her to do because she broke the rules, fuck, suck, whatever . If all you want from her is a kiss, get that....
Dont Open Up Too Fast
ating is not therapy. There are many ways to kill a relationship. Getting heavy and examining everything is certainly one of them. Conditioned by therapy and self-help books to tell all, women tend to overdo it on first dates, bringing up past relationships, their hurts and fears, their alcohol or drug problem all in an attempt to bond with this new man. This is deadly and boring. Be intelligent but light, interesting yet mysterious. That's why we have suggested not opening up too fast. See...
The Act Of Going Up To A Woman
So you've got the mindset. You know what it means to be THE MAN. You will no longer ever act nervous around a woman, or kiss up to her with compliments. You don't walk around looking anything less than your best. You are emotionally strong, confident, and content with life. You are a relaxed person. And you should already be TAKING MASSIVE ACTION to make yourself a successful person in all arenas of life - your finances, your body, and your hobbies. Now, for the action. This is actually the...
Teasing And Oppo Site Body Language
opposite side in order to be on the proper side of your open gestures. Playing hard to get can sometimes put you back in the driver's seat with women. For example, you could display a carefree attitude by slouching lower in a seat, opening up your posture, and taking up more space than necessary to demonstrate dominance. This may excite certain women since you are displaying as a typical alpha male, but if you go overboard, it will turn women off. You can also tease by showing feigned...
If Youll Be Jane He Will Be Your Tarzan
Men love to be with a woman who really enjoys sex, especially when she lets her man know how much she enjoys sex with him. Behind the sexism in the old saying about a man wanting a whore in the bedroom lies a great deal of truth. Your passionate cries, as well as your pleas for him to continue doing what he's doing, will leave your man wanting to pound his chest with pride. That's not, by any means, a put-down of the man, but rather an acknowledgment, even a celebration, of the fact that he...
Opening Lines for Internet Dating
Not having to deliver it in person is the best thing about your opening line for Internet dating. If you want to ooze charm like James Bond but your delivery is more Mr Bean, this is your opportunity to pull it off Because the recipient can't hear the intonation in your voice, words and humour really are crucial for Internet dating. Tailor your response to the style of ad they've written and use similar themes, for example If she's asked for a 'Knight in shining armour', you could respond...
Perceptiveness Intuition And Hunches
From a technical point of view, whenever we call someone 'perceptive' or 'intuitive', we are referring to his or her ability to read another person's non-verbal cues and to compare these cues with verbal signals. In other words, when we say that we have a 'hunch' or 'gut feeling' that someone has told us a lie, we really mean that their body language and their spoken words do not agree. This is also what speakers call audience awareness, or relating to a group. For example, if the audience were...
Courage The Moment Of Truth
It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly who knows the great devotions, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with...
Cocky and funny
Men without experience in seduction believe that being serious, trustful, sweet and communicative is the right attitude in order to have success with women. This is not so. To have success with women you need to follow this principle Serious and deep communication is something she has to earn Women easily get bored. They are not as good in enjoying repetitive and obvious behavior as men. A woman cannot consider as exciting and attractive a man who opens up to her too much from the beginning....
Being Confident
Getting over your fear Appearing confident Figuring out the difference between real confidence and false confidence X ou have to start with confidence. Not bravado, not bluster. This book is as much about losing your fear as anything else. If you want to be scared silly of being rejected and feeling vulnerable, of being too fat or too tall or too noisy or too quiet, you're going to be alone, because I'll tell you everybody's dirty little secret If we let ourselves, we'd all be frightened all...
PreDate Affirmations Sweet Talking to Self
An affirmation is a positive statement about yourself made in the present tense. A few kind words to yourself can calm you instantly, as well as quell any surges of anxiety you may feel as lift-off draws near. Repeat after me I'm a fun, interesting, worthy person. I deserve success and happiness. A date is only a date it's not do-or-die time. I'm calm and fearless. I will enjoy myself tonight, and my date will, too. You're now internally and if you've read Chapter 11 externally ready to have a...
Flirting with intent The signs
Flirting with intent is when someone's interested in being more than just friends and their behaviour changes to indicate the romantic motive behind their actions. This intention is hormone-fuelled, and being able to tell when this is happening is useful for either progressing a relationship or avoiding leading that person on. Establishing if someone wants more than friendship is useful when you're flirting with intent or are trying to determine whether someone else is flirting with intent with...
Secret To Womanese
What is this alien realm called Womaniverse where all these strange creatures known as WOAH-MEN emerge from They scatter about the Earth and cast Mankind in a Pleasure-Pain Paradox. Alas, the WHOA-MEN kept complaining and drove our ancestors so mad that they created civilization to please them. Seeing their failure for women are forever complaining , it is no wonder that we die first. But to top it off, these WOAH-MEN speak in a totally alien language Oh MY GAAWWWWD I just ate a HUUUUGE cheese...
Shy Girls
If you come across a man that catches your eye, look at him in the eyes and give him a gentle smile. The smile is an invitation, letting him know that you are open to be friendly with him. 2. If he smiles back, Turn Around Once you make contact and smile at him, the ball is in his court. He smiles back, keep walking. After a few second, slowly turn around and smile at him again. He most likely will be checking you out if he finds you attractive, so he will see this and will smile back at you...
Thundercats Top Tips For Getting The Girl Of Your Dreams
When I was first approached to write a chapter for this book, I asked myself Can I really think of 28 tips on how to get a girl After all, this isn't rocket science. Sometimes all you have to do is say Hi and not fart in front of them and you'll be good to go. There is no concrete, full-proof method to meeting and attracting women. No magic bullet, so to speak. It's all based on personal experiences and ideas, none of which are exactly the same. I hope while you read this chapter, you keep this...
Use sexual stories to get her horny
Use personal experience or fantasy stories to get her horny. ASF Never use stories DIRECTLY INVOLVING the girl you're with. QUOTE about what you did to other chicks or what you want to do to other chicks or ask her about what she has done or would like to do with other guys. You can use this even in every-day discussions by elaborating at the right time and in the right direction A variation get her in a private place, and feed her with fantasies, increasingly sexual, in a hypnotic way, until...
Detecting Lying
Recognizing liars takes little effort. When someone lies, he minimizes eye contact. He is usually downcast. A lying person glances from the corner of the eye. You can also spot dubious statements by watching hand movements. Notice when someone's hand covers the mouth, rubs the nose or tugs the ear - it betrays something fishy. A liar experiences obvious discomfort he may shift in his seat or shuffle his feet. His feet may point towards a door signifying a desire to escape interrogation. Never...
The Added Seduction of the Unexpected
Lovemaking doesn't always have to take place in the bedroom. As we saw in Chapter 17 with Christy and Paul, who showed us how seductive a Jeep can be, sometimes even the first time occurs in an unconventional place. Making love in an unexpected location, or at an unexpected time, can add a thrilling dimension to your seduction. Again, you can draw on the movies for inspiration. Think of Kevin Costner's hot limo scene in No Way Out, or Jessica Lange and Jack Nicholson on the kitchen table in The...
Opening gambits
Because everybody's most nervous at the beginning once you get past hi an opening line can give you some confidence. There is a universal opening line that's guaranteed not to fail Tell your date she or he looks fabulous beautiful, handsome, delicious, ravishing, divine . . . you choose the adjective . The more specific, the better but stay away from body parts between the neck and the ankles. Such a compliment as an opening line immediately puts both of you at ease Your date knows the...
Start With Her Feet
There's an easy way around that hesitation Offer to give her a foot massage. There's nothing overtly sexual about a foot massage and most women we've met love them. Women wear incredibly uncomfortable shoes in an effort to be stylish. Their shoes are often too small in hopes of making their feet look less huge and they have high heels that press her body weight downward into the narrow toe space. Eight or ten hours on her feet or just half an hour spent walking around and her feet will be...
Interaction with woman report
1. Date, Time amp Location of interaction _ 4. Your Opener describe it and how good did it turn out _ 7. How did the interaction end let down, number close, sex Now you probably don't know what half of this means, but it will be explained later on in the Advanced Training section. For now, you can see an example report from when I was very new at this and still made reports 1. Date, Time amp Location of interaction whatever the date, 1 00 am, a costume party for my friend's workplace I tagged...
Threesomes
Again, guys love the thought of them, and women are initially repulsed even if they would otherwise entertain the notion later, after trust has been established. I don't know what to tell you here, other than if you are looking for this kind of experience early on, you'll have to find a woman with a very open-minded and hearty sex drive willing to indulge you. I believe sex is challenging enough without making it even more intimidating having to perform for two, but it can be interesting with...
The Verbal Toolbox of Persuasive Tactics
The proper mental disposition as well as the techniques for rapport composed the first golden keys for persuasion. To complete the persuasive arsenal requires knowing how to make the sales pitch, so to speak. These verbal techniques forge the last golden key to persuasion. The sales pitch is what you say to sway others to your idea. They consist of properly formulated phrases and sentences. Following powerful patterns geared to elicit belief, these formulas take off where rapport ends it makes...
Tip To prevent ever having an excuse to NOT talk to a woman always have at
This material can be anything from a funny intriguing exciting story that really happened to you or your friend, or this material can be ready made conversation material for predictable situations such as waiting in line at the bank, buying groceries, or hanging out at a club. For example, if I am in a long line at the bank, I might tell a woman, I should have brought a small book with me like War and Peace, and then because of the long line and the fact that I know I will have a lot of time to...
That said my first advice is if you want to pay for sex hire an escort not a
But if you're in a strip club and feel the urge to get some moist relief, there are ways you can go about doing this. The term Mileage refers to how far a Stripper is willing to go in regards to your pleasure. Typically, girls who do air dances for you while you sit on your hands are considered low mileage, because they really aren't willing to do anything with you. A girl who will allow you to touch her while she dances for you is considered medium mileage. A girl who will not only let you...
This topic is open for discussion but closed for debate
This simply means that you can talk about the decision, but it stands as given. An Alpha Man puts his foot down on certain subjects, and women respect him for it. True Alpha Men absolutely love a challenge. Think about what usually happens in most situations Once an obstacle is figured out, or you learn how to handle it, there is usually no more fun. It's like being able to solve one of those puzzles where there are two interlocked metal rings in a funny shape that you have to figure out how to...
The Ten Commandments
Now it's time to revise some rules of interaction with society. You may consider these your ten commandments, learn them by heart because in the time to come they will completely alter the way you act. Start implementing these rules in your behavior. 1 Flirt- Women and other straight guys also buy the way love men who flirt. Flirt with women you want, flirt with women you don't want, flirt with the world. I'm not talking about sexual flirting I'm talking about plain flirting. Once you adjust...
Submodalities
Submodalities are the aspects of the internal representational systems that support any process. In order to fully understand, and manipulate, someone's behavior, you must first realize HOW that person is doing it on the inside of his or her head. Imagine everyone's brain as one big 3D Hologram. In that hologram people make decisions, have feelings, think, create, fantasize, etc Your mission is to extract the exact PROCESS that someone goes through to create the outcome they are getting. In...